Recently split up with my long term boyfriend and looking for advice?

Well, if you know that he isn't the one for you, then forget about him but if you are having strong gut feelings for him, then maybe your heart is telling you, he might not be perfect but he is your one and only. It is your decision on how you feel. DO you go with what your heart and gut says or what your brain really thinks of this guys. Good luck and I hope everything turns out great/ better for you.